There is nothing “out there,” “touchy-feely,” or “woo woo” about what I have to say today.
There are two types of people: players and spectators.
Players take action. Spectators comment on the action.
As a literal example, there’s a tennis match. The players are the ones smashing the ball back and forth. Everyone else is a spectator, just watching the ball, and cheering.
A less obvious example: Are you the woman wearing the amazing outfit or the one commenting on it?
But there’s more to being a player than just playing tennis or wearing great cloths.
While players have power with their actions, they are also 100% responsible for the state of their lives. No complaining, no blaming, just action for either making it happier or keeping satisfied.
Now you know why there are always more spectators than players: it is SO much easier.
Tell me, what did you DO today to make your life more the way you want it?
About Vanessa Loder
Vanessa graduated from Columbia University, Phi Beta Kappa, Summa Cum Laude and received her MBA from Stanford University. After working in finance for almost ten years, Vanessa realized that she was deeply unfulfilled by her career.
She quit her job to follow her heart and transformed herself so much, that she has now dedicated her life to helping other people, including through her new program,
You Can Create an Ideal Life.
Vanessa is a gifted coach who has enriched my life and helped me to see myself from a totally refreshing perspective. She has a powerful armory of tools she has shared with me and has skillfully navigated me through some deep issues i have held onto and helped me to have a more compassionate view of myself. This in turn has strongly impacted both my personal life and my business. I could not recommend working with her more highly to begin a wonderful journey of rediscovery of self.
